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You Must Understand Their Story

August 29, 2019/brittanyschank/No Comments


This quote was shared with me at a military conference.⠀

And it hit me HARD!⠀
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Like really hard!⠀
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Do you find yourself leading others without success?⠀
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How about without success from a few specific people?⠀
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Do you seem to keep getting caught up in the same battles?⠀
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Desiring something that they aren’t giving?⠀
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Repeating yourself over and over?⠀
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Giving up on them?⠀
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Let’s be honest, some people just aren’t cut out for the job.⠀
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But before we get to that point⠀
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Ask yourself⠀
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“Do I understand their story?”⠀
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Do I understand what motivates them?⠀
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Do I understand what the toughest obstacles are for them?⠀
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Do I understand what makes them tick?⠀
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Do I understand what paralyzes them?⠀
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If the answer is “no”, there’s work to be done my friend.⠀
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Lead. Love. Understand.⠀
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Sending love to you all today <3⠀

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